Guru Disciple Relationship
It is common to demand entry into Enlightenmenti through someone else. This renders it needful to make clear that NOBODY, not even the best of gurus, can bestow final and lasting realization-- a glimpse is the most he can possibly pass on and there are not many with that capacity. Even in such cases, his disciples must work diligently and win it themselves. For complete article, See http://www.angelfire.com/realm/bodhisattva/brunton.html
Please see this article You are myself
Also see evaluating gurus and guides